I think, being ignored by someone is the worst thing in life. It might cause your mood turns bad.

Okay, several times I did that bad act too, ignoring somenone who greeted me first in text or chat, not the face to face one lah.

Terlalu sibuk, gak punya pulsa, gak mood, ngerasa gak penting buat dibales.. yeah, that’s the most common reasons which usually “force” someone to ignore the text.

Gue pernah nanya sama temen, kalo ada yang sms dia, pasti di bales gak? Dan dia bilang, sebisa mungkin akan dia bales.. woooh, mantap!

Belom lama ini, temen gue gak bales chat gue, trus pas ketemuan, gue complained, “Kok gak dibales sih chat gue yg ini?”, ya menurut mereka semuanya udah jelas, trus juga mereka lagi gak ada topik yang mau diobrolin jadi gak dibales deh.. daripada dibales tapi malah nge-flat dan buang2 waktu.

Tapi pernah gak sih lo coba mikir,

your ignorance maybe has hurted them..

Mungkin lo pikir gak penting, tapi gimana kalo dia berpikir sebaliknya.. Gimana kalo dia bener2 butuh saran lo tapi hanya dengan alasan gak mood lo jadi gak mau jawab pertanyaannya. Gimana kalo dia bener2 perhatian sama lo atau pengen tau kabar lo karena udah lama gak ketemu, tapi lo malah sok sibuk, atau gimana kalo dia lagi butuh tempat cerita atau sekedar temen ngobrol dan ada kemungkinan bakal bunuh diri kalo lo nyuekin dia.. ehm, yang terakhir agak lebay hehe..

Introspeksi buat diri gue sendiri juga sih, karena terkadang gue masih kayak gitu, karena terkadang gue masih suka seadanya binti males2an kalo jawab pertanyaan atau sapaan orang, jadi harusnya gue gak boleh kesel kalo diperlakukan hal serupa, ahaha.. Tapi jadinya sekarang gue sangat mengehargai kebaikan seseorang ketika mereka membalas chat dengan cepat sih.  I mean, it's the little things that matter the most who has tried to brighten my days.

Ayayaya, cheer up, han!

It’s incredibly easy in this day and age to look around and constantly compare ourselves to other people. We feel like we’re not where we want to be, like we’re missing out, like everyone else is more successful or happier or having more fun or that we’re being left behind. The truth is, everyone feels like this from time to time.

You only see other people’s lives from the outside, looking in.

You only know what people tell you about themselves – or what they post on Facebook or Instagram. They are the editors of their own self-image, and in the modern era you can be completely deceived by the highlight reels people post online. You only see the highs, not the lows.

You don’t see the sadness. You don’t see the insecurity, or the self-loathing, or any sign of the internal battles that each and every one of us fights day in and day out.

It’s hard not to look at other people’s lives and feel jealous and insecure about ourselves. But we don’t see the reality. We don’t see how much other people struggle, exactly like we do. We don’t see the tears, or loneliness, or the frustration. We feel these things only in ourselves, and so we feel isolated and as though the world has left us behind, when in reality we’re all exactly where we need to be.

Just because they had a good life, it doesn't mean the didn't have a problem.
It's called "Sawang sinawang"

Be grateful guys.

We’re all on our own timelines, living our lives the way we’re meant to. We will get to where we want to be when we’re meant to get there, no matter how long it takes. We can’t force things to turn out any particular way. What will be will be.